It’s hard staying grounded with someone, because it’s real easy to run away from love and feelings.
Figuring out whether it’s right or wrong to stay or run is the hardest part.
Relationships as we age.
When we’re young and just start dating we are naïve and may rush into a relationship thinking Oh I like them and they like me, lets date? Yeah Ok :D Shit happens and we realize a relationship isn’t so easy. Sometimes we get played and truths become lies and we slowly learn to not trust people anymore. I noticed as I’ve gotten older, especially now, I don’t want to push for a relationship, I look at relationships as an emotional investment. I’ve been hurt too much for investing in the wrong men. I just want things to really count.
“whether their gazes or that light kiss, it all seems so natural and at ease. There’s something about their relationship that let’s people know ‘this is the person that i’ve found to be with me.’”
i miss having a relationship where it’s so simple and you don’t have to feel like you need to impress the other person. where you’re just you, bed hair and sweats with no makeup you and it doesn’t change a thing how he thinks of you. where you two simply just coexist; barely any drama, where he truly feels like your other half because things work out so well when you’re together. talks about nothing but it means so much. where even silence fills up a conversation.
it’s that effortless feeling i miss so much.
I think I’ve finally found this<3
Maybe it’s from my Catholic upbringing,
but I’ve put a high importance on sex or any sort of physical affection in general. I watch my friends make out with random men at parties and hear stories of what they did the morning after at breakfast but I really have so little to tell. I don’t know if it’s because of my Catholic upbringing or just that I’ve never been approached by a guy who I’ve found decent enough to mess around with. Also, I’m not about to go at it with a stranger, for all I know he could have an STD or a relationship and I’d never know.
Immaturity and Insecurity just go hand in hand.
When you acting like a kid saying ”YOU’RE MINE!” and then you basically cage that person to keep them as yours basically shows you don’t trust them enough to be considered as your own. If you really were mature and “love” her you would let her do her thing, decide what she wants in life instead of getting all jealous bout the dumb shit. Seriously.
No one wants a failed relationship.
It happens. The small things add up, arguments escalate, the couple move into different paths and grow apart. It’s not like anyone planned to make their relationship fall apart and you can’t help feelings to fade just as much as you can’t help it when your feelings began to grow for that person in the first place.
I hope that I don’t get into a burned out marriage.
or a burned out relationship.
It’s quite depressing to watch. Especially when they reject one another’s affection. Slowly turning cold towards each other when they used to be so happy together. What happened? Why did it happen?
I would never marry a man just because he’s “nice” and can give me a stable future.
While that seems alright, I would never be happy. I feel like everything would be in such a schedule, same old shit everyday. So mondane. I want to marry someone someday that makes me happy, someone that makes me excited to go home to see their face again.
