I was Here.

Small acts of kindness

You never know how much it can really impact a person. :)

It’s hard staying grounded with someone, because it’s real easy to run away from love and feelings.

Figuring out whether it’s right or wrong to stay or run is the hardest part.

I won’t lie, I’ve definitely I’m upset/mad more lately.

Honestly it’s mainly cuz I know I can get away with it.  I feel bad about it and rationalize before giving you attitude but also, I’ve just put up with friends and exes and had to compromise my feelings to avoid getting yelled at for feeling upset/mad to the point where I feel that I have a right to say how I feel, positive or negative.

honestly a person’s emotional state is all mind over matter

helloashleyy:

it’s up to you how you view the situations your in.  you can choose to live your life in misery because someone dumped you or you can become stronger and wiser because you know it was that person’s loss for walking away from you.

Knowing your there but busy with someone else.

I’d rather just not be here.  I’ve gotten rather selfish honestly.

When people offend me I will hold it against them.

Just like you have your beliefs, I do too.  Even if we still talk and hang, if I’m not in a good mood I can easily snap, so don’t be surprised.

It’s been more than a year and a half and I still think back on us.

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Relationships as we age.

When we’re young and just start dating we are naïve and may rush into a relationship thinking Oh I like them and they like me, lets date? Yeah Ok :D  Shit happens and we realize a relationship isn’t so easy.  Sometimes we get played and truths become lies and we slowly learn to not trust people anymore.  I noticed as I’ve gotten older, especially now, I don’t want to push for a relationship, I look at relationships as an emotional investment. I’ve been hurt too much for investing in the wrong men.  I just want things to really count.

I miss falling asleep next to you,

even if you do fall asleep before me and snore really loud.