I was Here.

Maybe it’s from my Catholic upbringing,

but I’ve put a high importance on sex or any sort of physical affection in general.  I watch my friends make out with random men at parties and hear stories of what they did the morning after at breakfast but I really have so little to tell.  I don’t know if it’s because of my Catholic upbringing or just that I’ve never been approached by a guy who I’ve found decent enough to mess around with.  Also, I’m not about to go at it with a stranger, for all I know he could have an STD or a relationship and I’d never know.  

Ok then.

You basically just said that the parties I go to are trashy…sorry I ain’t no socialite in a cocktail dress sipping on some champagne. 

If we’re friends, I’ll take care of you.

helloashleyy:

From the numerous shots to the point of puking and black out, I’ll make sure you make it through.

I don’t understand the point of someone drinking until they puke.

That’s just not fun for that person and the people who take care of them.  Know your limits.

Going to dances it makes me laugh when I see some people try to grind.

helloashleyy:

Dude got his hands on her waist/thighs and they both rocking their hips side to side fast to techno.  techno. LOL  what are you doing?  I don’t give a shit if a nigga’s cute, if you ask me to dance when it’s a techno song or I just wanna be with my girl friends, I’ma just straight up say No.  I probably shot some dude’s prides down a bit by not even saying “sorry” but I don’t really care, I don’t even know your name.

Maybe I do isolate myself on purpose.

I clearly have different interests than them when it comes to going out.  When I’m the only friend who’s trying to keep myself somewhat monogamous and everyone is just going out there to hook up with random guys, it gets uncomfortable.  I love partying with them but shit, can’t a girl just grind with a dude without him assuming it’ll lead to more?