is a phrase that bores me. Doesn’t give any valid reason for the decision being made. Back your actions up with reasons then I wouldn’t be giving people shit for the decisions they make.
And that’s what I find most frustrating when it comes to helping people. I want them to change when I call them on their shit but I know it’s not that simple. I know some people do not take that approach well. You can’t just change because someone points out your miserable with yourself. It’s only when you’ve decided for yourself you want to change your life. People can force you into interventions, see therapists, and go to rehab, but if you yourself don’t want to change then nothing will ever change. You’ll be stuck in cycles until you’re ready to say “I’m Ready.”
Telling me how long you fucked someone just the other day does not make me think, “DAMN he must be good to last that long!” but rather, “Why are you telling me this?”
If you’re tryna keep me interested why go and talk about an experience you’ve had with someone else right before you talked to me? It’s a huge turn off. LOL Take note, this is definitely how not to get a girl.
I mean I see their physical features but unless I see some personality I don’t really care.
If they aren’t on the same page, moving at the same rate in the same direction, it’s easy to lose connection with one another. No matter how much you love each other, the relationship just ends up coming undone.
If you’re going to try and be play games you better be good at it.
Don’t try and act slick with me unless you know how to do it right because I can see right through the bullshit a dude plays on me. In most cases I continue to talk just to humor myself because the guy actually thinks I’m falling for their words. I’m interested in a guy who can challenge me and outsmart me, I ain’t easy. Good luck.