I was Here.

You’re not him.

So I can’t let this feeling get to me.  Not ready for a relationship til I get myself sorted out.He left because he started falling for her.  Now I can understand that, but the fact that he had no balls to tell me so.  Yeah, it would have hurt, but it would have put to me rest a lot sooner.  Thanks, Arneo. Forever scared by men and relationships.  Something changes and then someone catches feelings for another, specifically Best Friends [I did it too I won’t lie].  This is why I don’t like making friends with a lot of guys, and this is why I’m so bothered by you hanging out with other girls, particularly those you know that like you.  Spending time with someone can allow for feelings to grow, while yours may not, you have no idea if that’s the same for her.