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But honestly, how can they judge?
Just because you aren’t a 6 foot, light skinned, valedictorian, with an 8 pack doesn’t mean you worth any less. After dating those dudes I decided never to go back to guys like them, not saying they were horrible to me, it’s just that whole “Ideal Guy” image that most girls want I didn’t want anymore. Even my friends told me how I was so hoped up on having these superior boyfriends.
But looking back, there was always a bit of insecurity constantly talking in the back of my mind, saying I wasn’t good enough to date these guys because I’m so average. Like some Bella Swan inferiority complex. Unintentionally they would make small blows when I know they just said it to help me like eating healthy and to work out to look a certain way, or say how they liked a girl with a certain hairstyle, or whatever. I wanted to fit their image of perfect even if they told me I was beautiful.
After them I told myself I just wanted a “normal” guy, someone on my wavelength. Someone who likes food and sex and laying around doing nothing. I justed want someone equal to me, flawed and I still see them as amazing. And I think I’ve found that and I’m actually happy and I don’t have to feel insecure about myself. I don’t have to hide parts of me away or push myself to live a different lifestyle. We’re compatible and it’s comfortable. Happiness.
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Thank God my mind isn’t corrupt and doesn’t do so easily.
Most people younger than 18 are always so heartbroken and think it’s the end of the world.
The average human life span in the United States is around 70
That being said, it is safe to say that all you heartbroken “I’m-not-going-to-survive-because-s/he-left-me” people have another 50+ years to live.
That’s 50 more years to fall in love over and over again, 50 years to recover from all those heartbreaks and 50 more years to have the time of our lives and follow our unrealistic and realistic dreams.
^^This.
